Oh Sex, the most taboo and arguably desired commodity for humanity. We create life through sex and are one of the few animals on the planet that actually derive pleasure from having solo or partner sex. But what happens when sex has become so easily obtainable and hook ups have become the norm? If you ask me you loose the magic of sex and it becomes just another hit of serotonin. Who wants that, certainly not me. I love sex but I also love celibacy. To me sex is magick and I practice my magick selectively as all are not worthy of my energy. I want my partner to know my body, my mind and my turn ons. That connection ultimately gives me amazing sex with incredible climaxes and a deeper connection to my partner. Yeah sure, you can argue all you want that hooks ups are nice but earth shattering , intentional, witchy sex with a reliable partner you love and feel passion for is way nicer. Below I’m outlining my favorite herbs and crystals that have given me a deeper connection to my sacred sensuality by myself or with a partner. So feel free to try them and let me know how it went. xx

SACRED HERBS TO ENHANCE SACRED SENSUALITY: herbal Aphrodisiacs have been used SINCE ancient times to increase performance and fertility. while the effect will be more subtle than the little blue pill, it is a way to incorporate passion, MINDFULNESS and natural remedies into your SEX life.

Passion Flower: Native to the tropical regions of the Americas but grown throughout Latin America and the USA; Passion Flower with its psychedelic and erotic flower blooms that look alien are known to have tranquilizing effect, including mild sedative and anti-anxiety effects. This allows the plant to relieve nervousness, insomnia, depression, and decrease pain. This fast growing woody vine is thought to enhance the libido, while producing a calming effect allowing the consumers to feel relaxed and have less mental chatter leading to self - limitation or performance anxiety. Sexual function is commonly increased after ingesting the a potent extract from Passion Flower leaf or consuming strong teas or concentrated volumes of Passion Fruit as this plant naturally attracts pollinators such as hummingbirds, bees, butterflies and has the energy of creation.

Damiana: Damiana is known for its fragrant leaves and beautiful little yellow flowers; Native to Mexico and Central America, this herb was used heavily by the Aztecs as they believed it to be the most powerful sexual tonics and herbal aphrodisiac. It’s use as an aphrodisiac has continued into modern times as it is believed to have a stimulating effect on libido, lowering rates of impotence, improve sexual satisfaction, increase orgasm frequency, and reduce vaginal dryness in women. Damiana contains chemicals that may affect the brain and nervous system so it can assist those suffering from headaches, depression, PMS and boost physical/mental stamina. This herb can also be smoked in combination with other aphrodisiacs as an alternative to tea consumption.

Rose: Grown all over the world in different regions and used for thousands of years in perfumes and creams. Rose is the traditional symbol for love and desire, Rose oil was used to overcome primarily female performance problems as it works to improve sexual desire, libido and fertility. The Rose has been known to help regulate the nervous system, making people more responsive to touch. Receiving a massage with rose oil will assist with overcoming stress and tensions from the day allowing you to relax and increase your sex drive. The Rose has also been known to help fight depression and boost confidence. This herb can also be smoked in combination with other aphrodisiacs as an alternative to tea consumption.

Mugwort and Wormwood: These sister herbs are interchangeable aphrodisiac ingredients; extremely potent, bitter and mildly hallucinogenic as they both contain Thujone is a powerful chemical that is known to alter the GABA receptors in our brains, creating an effect on the nervous system, and also on muscle tone. Woormwood was historically used in Absinthe as a mind altering alcoholic beverage that helped drinkers release inhibitions. There is evidence to suggest these herbs have an effect on the intestines, stomach, pancreas, Fallopian tubes, uterus, ovaries, testis, kidneys, urinary system, lungs, and liver. The feeling of bliss alongside the physical relaxation experienced while consuming the herbs can allow the consumer to feel open to touch, and new experiences as inhibitions are lowered.

Blue Lotus: Native to India, when consumed as an aphrodisiac, it can increase sexual desire and satisfaction. This beautiful and sacred flower is mildly psychoactive and may even lead to entheogenic or “spiritual” experiences when taken in larger doses. When taken in smaller doses it has a euphoric and relaxing effect, falling asleep after taking it is not uncommon. This herb can also be smoked in combination with other aphrodisiacs as an alternative to tea consumption.

SACRED CRYSTALS TO ENHANCE SACRED SENSUALITY: THE MAIN CHAKRAS TO ACTIVATE WHILE TRYING TO TAP INTO YOUR SACRED SENSUALITY ARE YOUR ROOT, SACRAL AND HEART CHAKRAS. THESE CHAKRAS MAKE US FEEL SAFE, SENSUAL AND PUT US IN THE VIBRATION OF LOVE.

Smoky Quartz: has the ability to remove negative or low frequency energy in and round our Auras that includes: stress, jealousy, anger, and fear. Smoky Quartz transmutes this energy into positive frequencies allowing the energy around us to be uplifting and optimistic. This Crystal helps activate the Root Chakra and is also a Crystal associated with treating fertility issues.

Rose Quartz: is the universal love stone, it opens your heart to be all-loving, including with yourself, your partner, and your surroundings. Its most popular meaning is to attract all forms of love into your Aura and life inspiring you to do things truly from a place of service and love instead of being self serving. This Crystal helps activate the Heart Chakra, allowing you to clear out old relationship patterns and mindsets. Love is the most powerful force in the universe. Use it mama.

Orange Calcite: is associated with sexuality and is said to stimulate positive energy throughout the body, including playfulness and confidence. This Crystal helps activate the Sacral Chakra which is known as our sexual and creative center. When you activate this Chakra and clear out any residual relationship and belief patterns it leaves you open to create the relationship of your dreams and attract it. The trick is to do the work and have pure intentions.

Carnelian: Associated with the Root and Sacral Chakra Carnelian activates your inner Fire energy. Fire is the energy of enthusiasm, warmth, brightness, actions, emotions, passion and activity. It is Yang or Masculine in nature. It stimulates vitality and fertility in both mxn and womxn, as it encourages passion, play and confidence in oneself, the energy allows you to bring your desires into fruition.

Malachite: Associated with the Heart Chakra, Malachite represents seduction, sensuality, beauty, curiosity, aesthetics, and the Muses. It helps unearth and release sexual trauma or memories in the heart center, particularly if bad or embarrassing experiences are the cause of performance anxiety or impotence.

Rainbow Moonstone: access that divine femme and lunar energy that allows you to even out your yin and yang energy. Although we live in an age of feminism, it is important to understand that we as womxn have a beautiful unique experience that no mxn will ever be able to understand. Allowing our femme energy to be activated can lead to amazing sexual experiences that boost our confidence and really allow us to tap into the divine feminine that is ours to experience in this lifetime. A good example of our magickal abilities as womxn is the ability to reach climax more than one time in a sexual union, something that most mxn cannot experience. Rainbow Moonstone reminds us of the beautiful magick womxn have.

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Disclaimer: I am not a doctor, my statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. For educational and spiritual development purposes only. Please consult your doctor before taking any herbs if you are pregnant or breastfeeding; have a pre-existing condition, allergies, or are taking medication as there herbs may cause side effects. Please sample a small portion of teas to test for potential allergies.